The Gift of Asking for Help

 As moms, especially homeschool moms, we tend to shoulder a lot. Whether it’s managing the day-to-day tasks, teaching lessons, or meeting everyone’s needs, the weight of motherhood can feel overwhelming—especially when your children are young.

But let me tell you about a lesson I recently learned: asking for help isn’t just about lightening your own load; it’s a blessing to others too.

A sweet older lady in our church recently volunteered to watch our four girls. At first, I struggled with the idea of letting her help. I thought, She’s already done her season of raising kids—why should I add to her plate? But when I finally accepted her kind offer, her response moved me to tears.

She told me how much she loves spending time with the girls, especially because she knows none of their grandparents live nearby. Watching them is her way of pouring into our family, and it fills her heart with joy. I thought I was burdening her, but in reality, she saw it as a ministry.

This experience reminded me that asking for help isn’t a sign of failure—it’s a way to invite others into your life and create opportunities for them to serve in meaningful ways.

Here are a few truths I’ve learned about asking for help as a mom:

  1. You Can’t Pour from an Empty Cup. It’s not selfish to admit you can’t do it all. Taking a step back to recharge helps you be a better mom and wife.
  2. God Created Us for Community. Galatians 6:2 says, “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ.” Asking for help lets others live out their calling to serve.
  3. Help Builds Relationships. Letting someone care for your family fosters deeper connections and shows your children the beauty of intergenerational friendships.

If you’re reading this and struggling to ask for help, I encourage you to pray for wisdom and courage. Let trusted people into your life. Remember, saying yes to their offer might bless them as much as it blesses you.

I’d love to hear from you—how do you embrace help as a mom?

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